Lately I’ve really been struggling to blog. I don’t feel enthusiastic or motivated about it. I’m not sure if I’m feeling burnout or what is going on. Have you ever gone through this as a blogger? If so, what did you do? Did you force yourself to keep to your blogging schedule anyway and just trudge through it? Did you take a little vacation? Find some outside way to motivate yourself?
I don’t think it is simply coincidence that this feeling has come at a time that I have been fighting off a deep depression, but I’m not sure if that is all of it. To be fair, it has been hard to motivate myself to do much of anything lately, but writing seems especially tedious right now, and I feel like I have nothing of value to say anyway 😦
Oh my god. My heart goes out for you. I hope you get well soon. And I guess it’s okay to take a break from things. Do other things that makes you feel good and inspiration shall come. Much love, Namrata. ❤
LikeLiked by 2 people
Thank you ♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’ve heard that a break is good.
LikeLiked by 4 people
I understand that feeling. I have not been motivated to blog for several months now. The way I have been coping is to write a blog here and there as I feel motivated. Sorry not to be of more help.
LikeLiked by 4 people
I feel you. Thanks for sharing ♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’ve also been struggling to blog. My life, in my opinion, isn’t very exciting to begin with, and I’m aware that what posts I have made lately are whiney and negative about my own silly little issues. I also know that, regardless of the side of the fence I am on, all of the negativity and spew of hatred over politics first, and still, over race, color and creed (although both are MUCH quieter these days!) took away a lot of my energy by requiring so much extra energy to armor myself to the best of my ability by being trampled down by the masses. I’ve been hiding out in books, reading an average of 10 each month so far this year, and it’s a place where I feel safe and protected, even when the storyline has horror and suspense. And maybe, after just over 2 years, I’ve achieved what I set out to do when I started blogging….
LikeLiked by 6 people
That sounds like a great plan, the books that is. I find myself happiest when escaping reality lately. Guess that says something about our reality, huh?
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’m with Sadje
LikeLiked by 3 people
I totally went through this. My lapse lasted a couple years. For me, I think I had spilled out so much history and so many emotions that one day I just felt an emptiness when it came to writing, almost like I had nothing more to give of myself. However, just a few months ago I somehow found my way back and have started posting again consistently. I think sometimes we just need a break, and writing isn’t something that can be forced. Whenever I tried to force it, it just didn’t feel organic and that came across in the post. Give yourself time. It will come back. HUGS!
LikeLiked by 3 people
Thanks so much.
LikeLike
Yes, I have what I call flat spots, and one way for me is to take some time, any time, in nature because I find that refreshing.
LikeLiked by 4 people
Great advice. Thankfully the cold spell is ending soon!
LikeLiked by 1 person
If I can’t get out I look through a resource (photos, books etc.) and write short pieces about the visual experience, I find it a helpful discipline when energy is low.
LikeLiked by 2 people
I think your struggle is something we all experience.
LikeLiked by 5 people
Agreed.
LikeLike
🤗
LikeLiked by 4 people
if you’re struggling, then I’d say you need a break. Blogging is supposed to be fun!
LikeLiked by 4 people
Love this. I agree.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Sorry to hear about the depression, Miranda. I think a break sounds good. Blogging can be very time-consuming, so remember self-care. When I get in a rut, some things I do are take walks in my neighborhood, meditate, and journal. Anything to refresh and hit the reset button! 🙂
LikeLiked by 4 people
♥♥♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
I get it every now and then too. I take a break in those times.
LikeLiked by 5 people
ON HER!!! RULES AND REGULATIONS WHICH SHE!!! BREAKS REGULARLY!!!
💜 I Told Parents, particularly My Marvellous, Maddening, Miserable, MALEVOLENT!!! Mom, and Other Authorities, like Religion, to PISS THE FUCK OFF!!! then Let Me Be; ergo this is where it Gets ExtraOrdinarily Interesting EveryOne…because here I AM; released from a Prison Cell, Divorced from a Mad Bitch of a Former Wife, I AM a Drunkard; it’s Crystal Clear Clarity NOT!!! a Good Catch…so, Do I NEED!!! I Continue with This Ridiculous Male, Miserable, Maddening Diatribe; or just Continue Masturbatory Solo Sexual Satisfaction 🤔 ?…yet NOW!!! Away from ALL that ‘Mommy Dearest’ ~ Movie I AM Incredibly HAPPY!!! yet it does Sadden Me that I No Longer Have My Biological Former Family it’s WHAT I WANT!!!
…💛💚💙…
LikeLiked by 3 people
When I didn’t have words to blog some years ago, which I don’t think I was depresses then, I took a couple of months break and it helped.
I have also took breaks for burnout before and had a months break one year from my previous blog.
I am feeling burnout quite often now, due to issues in my life I have blogged about and how I have been feeling last weekend and again today, regardless I have things to write, I feel I may be having a months blogging break some point.
LikeLiked by 4 people
I’m definitely leaning towards a break.
LikeLiked by 3 people
Life gets in the way sometimes. It can be hard to write. Sometimes I try and write a poem or add something I did for an art group. Trying to ring the changes.
LikeLiked by 3 people
There’s nothing wrong in taking a break from creative endeavors. For me, forcing myself to write, draw, paint etc. rarely produces any sort of spark. The inspiration will arrive when you least expect it. You do have much of value to say and when you are ready, you will. 🙂
LikeLiked by 3 people
♥♥♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
I’ve had times of struggling with writing, and I’ve come to see them as part of a rhythm. Ideas and writing don’t always flow smoothly, so I’ve seen the struggles as a kind of “dry season.” To deal with the struggles, I try to remind myself of expectations — that down times happen. I go on walks most days, and those help. If I’m working on a larger project (like a novella), I’ll lower my focus to a simpler piece. I’ll write flash fiction or a poem. Something loose and rough. I think it’s very important to be kind to yourself and not have unrealistic expectations. Everybody needs to take breaks. Everybody’s output will fluctuate.
LikeLiked by 3 people
Great advice!
LikeLiked by 1 person
I enjoy being creative, and I enjoy visiting other bloggers and giving feedback but sometimes I go days or longer without doing either and then I must delete notifications. I try to do so without guilt but I still feel it. However my brain tells me that there are so many parts to my life – I need to be social by phoning, and emailing, I need to get fresh air and exercise, I have projects and some of them are urgent, and I need to read and be silent, I like to challenge myself by learning and I volunteer. I feel like these are all the legs on my table and I try to strengthen each leg equally so it stands balanced. In your situation I feel like you might be telling yourself one of your table legs needs time. Best wishes always.
LikeLiked by 3 people
Too true. Thank you ♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
Sometimes we need a small break to refresh, regroup, and gain new inspiration. Don’t let your break be too long. In the meantime keep you heart and eyes open for inspiration.
LikeLiked by 1 person
♥♥♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
Totally. I feel this way all the time. But I also feel this way about everything else in life, yet I manage to stick to a schedule. Same with blogging. Maybe it’s a blessing that I feel this way. Anyway, wishing you all the best!
LikeLiked by 1 person
It sucks to deal with chronic depression 😦
LikeLike
Oh oh.
Shall keep you in my healing prayers Maranda.
These are tough times and anyone of us can go under water and depressed. We have different ways of handling it. Don’t force yourself. Meditate more. Answers would come.
This too shall pass. Good or bad thing about life my friend is – that nothing lasts…
Love and hugs 💖🤗
Ashok
LikeLiked by 3 people
Thanks ♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
Speaking as someone who has taken many, many long breaks from blogging, I have to say that I understand. I also am of the firm opinion that everyone has something of value to say. I know that won’t mean much coming from another blog on the internet, but I can say positively that there are people out there that truly find value in your words.
LikeLiked by 1 person
♥♥♥
LikeLike
Everything you have to say is always of value. But if you’re having a hard time writing, then take a short break for self care. Pamper yourself in some way. Maybe get outside in the sunshine or create some art. Sending you lots of loving energy 💖
LikeLiked by 3 people
Take a break and relax, don’t be depressed. Life is Beautiful
LikeLiked by 1 person
I bought a wordsearch puzzle book at the grocery store. That sounds a little trivial, but I’ve been trying to find novel things to do like that…I’ve been pretty low on motivation too…maybe nature walks?
LikeLiked by 3 people
I do sudoku puzzles a lot.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I feel where you all are coming from. I am new to blogging and I was really excited during the process of building the blog. Not more than a week after I published my dad died and I have been struggling to find my voice. I tried to write through the pain but it felt hollow. I like some of the other comments do not want to be a drag on readers so I have been hesitant to post anything that might be somber. I have received some good advice from friends and family to keep writing and expressing how I feel as an outlet. Then when these feelings have subsided I can see where I was and be able to look back at that time as growth.
I still write all the time but have not posted anything in over a month, maybe their advice have help you.
I want to thank you for being vulnerable in this post. It helps to know that you are not alone in things like this.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I am so very sorry about your loss! My dad died when I was 12, and it isn’t easy at any age.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I can totally relate. I push through it as long as I can but you can only go on feeling that way for so long. I cut back on the number of posts I do as well as cut back at my day job and try to get out and enjoy the parts of life that bring me joy with that extra time.
LikeLiked by 1 person
♥♥♥
LikeLike
Yes. I have depression and it can be a struggle to post. You are not the only one.
LikeLiked by 2 people
I medicated bi-polar. Sometimes I sink into depression that can be debilitating. Eventually, it passes. Good luck. also, sometimes you just need a break from everything.
LikeLiked by 2 people
I took a break as putting pressure on myself whilst already feeling depressed wasn’t helping at all.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Agreed ♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
I am going through the same situation with depression. It inspires me to write more but negatively. What I have stopped doing have been everything I love… I find tedious my job… I am living one day at a time. Overthinking burns my mind always….
LikeLiked by 1 person
Hugs ♥
LikeLike
It’s hard because I think our best content comes when we are in tune with ourselves and feeling good. I had a two week break from blogging which was difficult to push myself to do but I feel my head is a lot clearer now in the direction I want the blog to take. Have you tried working in a different environment that may offer some inspiration?
LikeLiked by 1 person
I did decide to take a break and vlog less often. I think it is helping ♥
LikeLiked by 1 person
I understand so much. I have been feeling just like you, maybe even worse because for me it has been years since I have even opened my blogs, I not only felt no inspiration, no motivation to write, but a deep sadness in the fact I could not do the one thing that gave me the most joy, the most release and the most fun. But id like to say that like me finding my way back I hope you will find your way out of the darkness as well. Hugs to you
LikeLiked by 2 people
Wow, I’m so sorry you’ve suffered like that. I understand and can relate. How long have you been back blogging?
LikeLiked by 1 person
i have been blogging for about 11 years now, and since 2017 i kind of just lost that inspiration
LikeLiked by 1 person
I understand. I hope you can find it again when the time is right.
LikeLiked by 1 person
the time is now..thank you,I am trying hard to find myself again
LikeLiked by 1 person
I wish you much luck ♥
LikeLike
Hi, I’m a new blogger! But have had dealings with depression quite a bit. I suppose a break can’t really make you any worse, maybe change your surroundings for a short while and see how things are then. Hope you find it in you to carry on
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, I did take a short break and have decided to change up my routine even on my return. Hoping it helps!
LikeLike
I have been feeling the exact same things you describe here!! I think maybe blogging just to get things off of your mind can not only be therapeutic but can open up our minds for more creative thinking? Thank you for sharing, I hope you are feeling better.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Thanks, I’ve still not been feeling like blogging much lately, but am trying to not force myself and just give myself time.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I have felt guilty for not blogging, too, because this was something I was excited about. It’s hard to be honest with yourself let alone to blog about it. I’m grateful that you were willing to share, it was helpful. Thank you, again.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Glad to help ♥
LikeLike
I’m feeling the same way with reading, even though I’m enjoying the book I’m reading. You may just be in a slump. First off, I don’t think it’s the worst thing to not blog every day. But if that’s your thing and you’re in a slump, here is what I tell my fitness clients and members at the gym – just show up and do something. Maybe you don’t feel like doing a full workout, so maybe just do some upper body or lower body. or if you just do some stretches, it can give you the energy you need to move. Maybe the same thing here. Maybe take a break, or just write a little bit. That way you’re doing something.
LikeLiked by 1 person
Great advice! Maybe I need a personal trainer for blogging inspiration lol.
LikeLiked by 1 person
I can help you!!!
LikeLiked by 1 person
https://austingreenj1633.com/2021/06/11/christian-depression/
LikeLiked by 1 person